August 11
Meekness, The Daughter Of Humility
Preparation. - Humility, the special virtue for this month, leads us to meekness, of which we shall consider, first, the obligation, or precept, and secondly, the ways, or means by which we can attain it. We shall then resolve to guard against our ill-temper in our words and deeds towards those around us, for, says St. Paul, “the servant of God must be mild towards all men” (2 Tim. 2. 24).
I. The Obligation Of Practicing Meekness
“Be ye perfect,” says our divine Saviour to us, “as your heavenly Father is perfect” (Mat. 5. 48). God governs the world with meekness, so far as to cause His sun to rise on the wicked as well as on the good; so far as to furnish to all the means of living, the elements of happiness and the graces of sanctification. Jesus Christ, the perfect image of His Father, taught us meekness both by word and example. “I send you as lambs among wolves,” He said to His apostles (Luke 10. 3). “Learn of Me, because I am meek” (Mat. 11. 29). “If one strike thee on thy right cheek, turn to him also the other; if a man take away thy coat, let go also thy cloak unto him” (Mat. 5. 39, 40).
Oh, how this teaching urges us to aspire to the perfection of meekness, especially when we behold it so constantly in Christ’s conduct! From His very birth at Bethlehem He already offers Himself as the meek victim of our salvation. He flees from Herod, whose insolence He could have repressed. Later on during His ministry, how patiently He bears with the scribes and pharisees; and how kind He is towards unhappy sinners! Ever ready to forgive, He dissimulates insults, and does good to all, without excepting His enemies.
What is to be said of His conduct during the torments and revilings of His Passion? The prophet thus describes Him: “He shall be led as a sheep to the slaughter, and dumb as a lamb before his shearer” (Is. 53. 7). After this, should we not blush at being so often the slave of bitterness, resentment, aversion, and even anger, whenever we are in the least displeased?
O my God, enable me to know how I fail in thought, sentiments, words and dealings with my neighbor against the virtue of meekness, and especially against my inferiors, the poor, the ignorant, the unpolished. Make me kind and condescending towards all in all things lawful, so that, like St. Francis de Sales, I may prefer always to yield to others, rather than to compel others to adopt my views. “Be meek towards all.”
II. Means Of Acquiring Meekness
After exhorting us to practice patience towards all, never to return evil for evil, but rather good meekly and charitably, St. Paul immediately adds: “Always rejoice; pray without ceasing; in all things give thanks” (1 Thess. 5. 14-18). Does he not thereby seem to indicate the means of always keeping our soul tranquil and meek?
“Always rejoice,” he says. Anger, impatience and bitterness often arise from our habitual sadness. Spiritual joy, by dilating our heart, banishes therefrom melancholy, ill-humor and caprice, and enables us more easily to yield to the wishes of others, and to be less sensitive when annoyed.
Assiduous prayer, mentioned by St. Paul, obtains for us light for our mind to act wisely, unction of grace to soften our temper, and a mildness of heart that enables us to speak and act at all times and with every one, in accordance with the example of Jesus, the meekest of men.
Gratitude, also mentioned by St. Paul, in its turn, helps us to practice meekness; for when we consider the loving and continual attention of Providence towards each one of us, we cannot refrain from being moved thereby. And if we are so moved, how can we show ourselves harsh, uncivil and devoid of compassion towards others? The patience of God in bearing our faults, our defects, our imperfections, and even our grievous offenses against His commandments, ought to fill us with confusion, when we get angry or irritated against others or foster an aversion against them, even if they had seriously wronged us.
O Jesus, who, during Thy Passion, didst endure in silence the derision, ill-treatment and scorn of Thy creatures, inspire me with peace and kindness in all that may wound my pride and self-love. Under the protection of Thy Blessed Mother, I am resolved, first, not to require others to be angels, but to bear with them in all meekness and charity, and secondly, to strive to suffer meekly every thing disagreeable from others, and to avoid causing others to suffer.